Making a Move? Here’s How to Help Your Dog Adjust to Your New Digs
Your dog loathes moving, too. These tips will make it easier on everyone.
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Move is a four-letter word. (So is “pack” by the way, but that whole issue is subsumed within the horror of the move.) With all the hassles and associated packing, moving is usually a horrible experience with a bit of the dreadful and stressful thrown in just to make sure that you really hate it. It’s not just you who hates moving — it can be miserable for your dog, too. The good news is, there are ways that you can ease your dog’s transition to a new home. Ahead, how to set your dog (and yourself) up for success.
Before You Pack
Have the boxes and other essential moving items like packing tape, newsprint, and bubble wrap in your house way ahead of the move so your dog can get used to them.
Associate these items with play and treats so that your dog develops positive rather than negative feelings towards them.
Boxes can easily be damaged by dogs, and dogs can easily be damaged by bubble wrap, so don’t let them be together unattended.
While You Pack
Carve out some time for your dog despite all of the mayhem of the move. Take your dog out for walks, classes, or playtime (even a little goes a long way). If you are swamped by all the packing and other torturous parts of moving with a dog and your schedule is disrupted, that’s understandable.
Still, it’s important not to make the mistake of thinking that since you don’t have time for a 45-minute walk, no walk is possible. Even 10 minutes of getting out of the house to walk or 5 minutes of fetch in the yard is a way to be kind to your dog, and to yourself. Everybody needs breaks for a little fun! Hopefully, this rough patch will be brief, and after the move you can return to a routine that involves the usual amount of time devoted to your dog.
Keep your dog away from the actual packing as much as possible. Watching everything in the house be shuffled and packed is inherently unsettling for most dogs. The less they see this going on, the better. You could have another family member take your dog for a walk while you pack. Or, if it’s possible, bring our dog to a friend’s house so they’re away from the packing nightmare entirely.
Now is a great time to ask a friend or neighbor, “Can you watch my dog tomorrow evening?” or “Are you able to walk my dog some morning?” Many people will be so relieved that they can be of service without having to lift a heavy sleeper sofa that you are likely to get the assistance you need with a smile.
How to Help Your Dog Adjust to Your New Home
Once you’ve moved in, there are a few things you can do to ease the transition for your dog. Here are some simple tips to try:
Do Stick to Old Routines
All of the changes associated with moving are inherently stressful, so do what you can to maintain the same general routine as before. So, if your dog is used to getting up, going into the yard, eating breakfast, and then going on a walk, try to follow that same pattern in the new place. If you have to change things up because of a new job or other commitments, try to keep as much of the old routine in place as possible for at least a couple of weeks. Once your dog has settled in, additional changes will be easier to handle.
Don’t Buy New Dog Gear Yet
It’s natural to want to buy new stuff when you move to a new house. But in the beginning, keep your dog’s old stuff for at least a few weeks until they’re used to the place. Yes, I know it’s not ideal to bring a nasty, fur-covered old dog bed and water bowls with dings in them to your new home, but those things are comforting to your dog, so don’t take them away. If your urge to buy new things for your dog is overwhelming, indulge it with new toys or things to chew on.
Do Give Your Dog Lots Of Loving
Playing, walking, and just being with your dog sounds simple enough (after all, that’s what you normally do, right?). The problem is that when you move, you can become so overwhelmed that you may unintentionally ignore your dog or skip their walk. So commit to spending quality time with your dog every day and that will help them out a lot.
Don’t Leave Your Dog Home Alone in the Beginning
Even dogs who have been perfectly comfortable for years being left alone when you leave may struggle in a new home. Most dogs are extremely place sensitive and need to learn to be okay when left alone in a new location. Try to wait as long as you can before leaving your dog alone at the new house, even if that means awkwardly taking them everywhere for a few days or so.
If you’re moving with other family members, one option is to take turns staying home with your dog for those first few days so that at least one of you is always with them. When you do have to leave your dog, start with short departures if you can. Always leave them with something they love such as a Kong stuffed with treats or something new (and safe even without supervision!) to chew on. You may also want to leave their usual dog bed, crate, or blanket to comfort them.
Do Spend Time on the Floor With Your Dog
One of the things that helps dogs feel at home when they’re somewhere new is familiar smells. You can add those familiar smells to your house faster by spending time on the floor with your dog. Being on the floor together also adds to the time you spend giving them the loving that they needs during this stressful time.
Above All, Be Patient
This may be the most obvious advice of all, but being patient and letting your dog adjust at their own speed is wise. Some dogs will be perfectly comfortable within a few days, many take a few weeks to settle in, and some dogs can take months or more to feel at home in a new place. No matter how long it takes your dog to adjust, your patience is more likely to speed things up than impatience ever could.
Boundaries, right? But if they end up sleeping in bed, that’s cool too.
So it isn’t obvious you live with an animal.
Karen B. London, PhD
Karen B. London, Ph.D., is a Certified Applied Animal Behaviorist and Certified Professional Dog Trainer who specializes in working with dogs with serious behavioral issues, including aggression. She writes the animal column for the Arizona Daily Sun and is an Adjunct Professor in the Department of Biological Sciences at Northern Arizona University. She is the author of six books about canine training and behavior, including her most recent, Treat Everyone Like a Dog: How a Dog Trainer’s World View Can Improve Your Life.